Expectations
I don’t know who said it, but when I read this sentence, it made me dizzy it felt so true. Try this on for size.
Expectations are premeditated resentments.
Whoa.
Really?
Uh, yes. Sometimes, they can be. And, paradoxically, we need to expect the best in order to receive it. Go figure that.
Here’s what this really means: Of course you will have expectations. It’s attachment to them in a rigid way that causes the problem of premeditated resentments. So know that you will expect the best, and if it arrives, you can do your happy dance, and if it doesn’t, you can do your happy dance because of what did arrive.
Healthy expectations are willing to be surprised by something new and better.
Seeds XV, 20



