Inviting You & Yours to ToMePeaceIs.com


The press release says this website is the brainchild of inner peace activist Dr. Susan Corso. For many years, I have looked for an organization to which to devote my peacework. There are some wonderful ones out there. At last it came to me that I needed to begin something much simpler than what I was finding out there.

Because you are a reader of these pages, you know that I believe that peace is the only goal every single living being can agree upon. Where we have trouble agreeing is upon how to get there.

So, today we are launching …

ToMePeaceIs.com

It’s a simple website designed to help you begin to create the habit of inner peace. The single page will take you to a community page on Squidoo. Then, for 21 days, finish the sentence To me, peace is …

(Maxwell Maltz discovered that it takes 21 days to form the new neural pathways in your brain which begin to create a habit.)


The point here is that what inner peace is to you
changes all the time! Sometimes every minute. If you will commit to finding out what inner peace is to you at any given moment, you will naturally be contributing to peace in relationships and peace on the planet.

All peace starts with inner peace.

Won’t you join me and invite those you love to join us on ToMePeaceIs.com?

Grand Theory of Self

Seeds XI, 48

Seed: Grand Theory of Self

In that same issue of Parabola, Margaret Pierpont, a student of insight meditation since 1991, writes of her experience on retreat.

She laments “the way the mind spins a web of thought, feeling, body image, and identity out of a fundamental discomfort, or pleasure.” Sitting zazen, she discovers that she’s simply hungry.

She is further dismayed. “I began to see how voluntary simplicity and stillness of outer form revealed the lack of stillness and volition within.” Ouch.

Then she nails herself. I was “unable to let fleeting impressions go by without elaborating them into a grand theory about myself.”

Sound familiar? It’s called story-telling, story-spinning, story-building—and we all do it. The poor woman was just hungry, and did she create a tale to tell about it!

The next time you catch yourself evidence-gathering so you can tell a good story, check in with your deepest needs. You might just be hungry, which needs no grand theory at all.

Go into the kitchen and eat with thanksgiving.

Be joy,

Susan Corso

Dr. Susan Corso

Seeds are remarkable gifts. Sown in consciousness, they bring you to the most important part of your being—your Divine Spark.

Check out the Seeds Archive for past messages of inspiration.

 

When you have friends you would like added to the Seeds e-mail list, send their addresses to me at susan@susancorso.com.

For spiritual nourishment, please visit my website www.susancorso.com

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Ode Magazine, and The Huffington Post.

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New Computer—ish


It has taken some good long time but at last my computer is on the way to health. It seems a perfect metaphor as we approach Thanksgiving.

As you know, I had an IT person who turned out to be less than stellar, shall we say. The process muddied my thinking so that’s why this took so long. Anyway, a dear, responsible computer wizard arrived last night and took everything off my computer. Then he installed the newest version of Windows (7) and now I’m back on a steep learning curve with my own machinery.

The best news is that there are no longer three users on my computer! Yep, three. Even though I’m the only one who has ever used it. Here’s what the other person had done: whenever something didn’t work right, he did a workaround. Not a bad solution necessarily, but a devastating one when there are workarounds around workarounds around workarounds.

The other IT person was self-taught. He knew how to create workarounds like nobody’s business which is great when you are working on your own computer. No problem. But when you’re working on someone else’s computer, workarounds can really bollix up the works.

Someone commented recently, “It’s like your computer was full of wads of bubblegum.”

So how does one person with one computer end up with three users? C’mon, tell the truth, do you really want to know?

The amazing thing is that I know, and I could explain it, but why?

The more important thing is that even though the configuration is far from done, I am awash in gratitude—appropriate for Thanksgiving week. What really happened here?

Three parts of me have been integrated into one whole me—is the simplest explanation. It’s the metaphor anyway. I’ve been doing some deep healing work around my health lately, and this feels like a kind of liberation into the simplicity and speed that a truly healthy person/computer needs.


So after the Macy’s Parade and seeing Santa—a must on Thanksgiving Day—I will be spending some time climbing into my new technical reality, and singing silly, little gratefulness songs as I do so.

How’s about you?

What makes you sing gratitude?

The Urge to Circulate


I’m very organized; it’s how I get done all that I get done in my daily life. Lately though, I’ve been feeling crowded, by things, by events, by phone calls, by obligations. It took a bit but I finally figured it out—I need to clear my space and circulate the things I don’t use or love.

This urge usually comes over me every couple of years, most often in the summertime, when I have more leisure time. This year, however, the strike has come right in the middle of the busy season. What to do?

Well, the first thing is to make a list of what I want to clear out. Every drawer, cupboard, and closet in every room. Then, the second thing is to make a plan, a schedule, a calendar. I don’t really have a lot of time these days, but no matter.

Our office supplies closet has small drawers in it—twelve to be exact. It doesn’t matter if it takes me twelve days. I can definitely do one per day, so I know I’m progressing toward my goal, but without pressure. Pressure to circulate can lead to giving up or giving away what I need or want because I just want to be done.

Stewardship is an amazing journey. It means taking care of what is mine to care for, and releasing what has outlived its usefulness to me. Interestingly, as I get older, I want fewer things to take care of. Many fewer. I’m much more interested in intangible items.


So, even if you’re approaching the holiday season, you can still meet your own commitments for clearing out your life if you want to do so. Consider this: what I release might be the perfect holiday gift for someone!

Give and it shall be given unto you.

Dissolved

Seeds XI, 47

Seed: Dissolved

One last Seed based on the wisdom of Professor Ravi Ravindra who was interviewed in Parabola in the fall 2008 issue.

He says, “Where mystery is dissolved: not solved but dissolved, there is a clarity, an insight, and the only response is a celebration.”

And this is what comes of asking and answering those pesky, vital why questions. Those why questions give life meaning, and we humans need meaning.

That’s why I love what the Professor says. We aren’t to solve the mysteries. We are to dissolve them. Dissolve comes from Latin roots that mean to loosen. Sometimes I think we hold to those why questions so tightly that the only way to get answers to them is to let a bit of ourselves dissolve.

Let loose, let go, let fly. Let yourself trust that you really do have a reason for being here. And, if nothing else, remember that the rest of us here need you.

Now let’s party.

Be joy,

Susan Corso

Dr. Susan Corso

Seeds are remarkable gifts. Sown in consciousness, they bring you to the most important part of your being—your Divine Spark.

Check out the Seeds Archive for past messages of inspiration.

    

When you have friends you would like added to the Seeds e-mail list, send their addresses to me at susan@susancorso.com.

For spiritual nourishment, please visit my website www.susancorso.com

and my blogs Seeds for Sanctuary, God’s Dictionary,

Ode Magazine, and The Huffington Post.

Follow me on Twitter @PeaceCorso

Lilly Platt—the Change Coach

Everybody needs a coach. You know that, right? Well, I write today to introduce you to my new business coach: Lilly Platt—she’s a genius!

I met her in the course of my everyday work thoroughly unsuspecting that she was a coach. She has a day job for the moment. Anyway, when I met her I looked long and hard at her. There was something about Lilly.

I saw her for a little bit each week, and every week, we had some conversation. I recommended a book to her; she sent me toward two hilarious books on Yiddish etymology. Something happened; our connection deepened each week.

Finally, we visited briefly in the office and arranged to have a phone conversation on our own time, and Love with a Capital L burst into bloom between us. At least, on my side of the equation.

Turns out, Lilly was an organizational development consultant in an earlier phase of her life, and has now decided that she wants to shift all those O.D. change agent gifts into two different tributaries. Lilly has clients like me who need coaching in their personal lives. She also helps wholistic practitioners who want to develop their ability to facilitate change in their clients.

Here’s the thing. In my experience Lilly can deal with anything. She’s old enough and young enough and smart enough to walk with me through any matter I choose to throw at her, but where she truly excels is in teaching the hardest part of interior work. Let me spell it out for you. Lilly trafficks in:

The How.

And that is her abundant blessing to this world. Lilly teaches people how to change. Her clientele are people and practitioners who know already that we want to change; what we’re missing is how. Lilly Platt is a how expert.

Let me tell you what she did for me from the moment we started working together. I was in the midst, as you know if you read this blog, of doing my marketing plan for my agent and was I stuck! I needed images and ideas that made my peace work fit with my fiction-writing self. I don’t see these two aspects of myself in conflict but it’s sometimes hard to explain that to other people.


Lilly sat with me in silence, over the phone, until we found a way to express a metaphor for a different kind of marketing. I finally talked about heart marketing—marketing which appeals not to the material realm but to the hearts of my potential readers. My books, after all, appeal to the hearts of their readers. The point to the novels is to help people change!

A traffic light image came to me, not just nay traffic light but a special one that could be all greens. I recently wrote about this in my blog. I needed the knowing to make the marketing turn all three lights green. Lilly held the space for me to figure this out—a hologram for spiritual alignment, the core of my work at Visions Healthcare, the core of my peacework, and the core of each novel.

If you need to know how, email me, and I’ll get you connected to the can-do how wizard, Lilly Platt.

Defy Gravity by Carolyn Myss—Question Authority


Remember that 70s button “Question Authority”? My perverse mind has always wondered, “Who made you the question authority?” Believe it or not, after almost forty years, I think I’ve found her.

I recently read Caroline Myss’ new book, Defy Gravity. In it she asks the most authoritative questions I’ve considered in a long time. Caroline Myss has made herself into the question authority; we ought to take her questions quite seriously.

Caroline Myss has worked in the field of medical intuition for over two decades. In that time, she became known for her trenchant, intuitive diagnostic ability. She was not and has not ever been or considered herself a healer. She is, however, quite a remarkable mystic and has been since the beginning of her career.

Thus we find that, at long last, Caroline Myss has, through prayer, begun to facilitate the healings of others. Welcome to the ranks of the healers, Caroline! We’ve been waiting for you for a long time.

Her latest book, loosely based on the seven deadly sins and the seven cardinal virtues of Catholic notoriety, goes direct to the heart of healing territory—as she says, beyond reason. Healing is not reasonable. There are no genuine formulae to guarantee healing, but there are creatable environments that allow for healing.

Ms. Myss confirms what healers the worlds over have known for centuries: healing comes from the soul, the interior self. “Grace,” she says, “is what heals.” She’s right. The soul calls for particular actions to set the stage for healing:

Forgive the past;

Accept what cannot be changed in your life;

Relinquish any personal agenda for how your healing should unfold;

Be present to your life as it is right now.

This is the path to “the fewest obstacles.”

Her jabbing queries begin as Ms. Myss exhorts us to let go of reason. Here’s one: How often do you betray your intuition because of unreasonable reasons? Ouch. I did just that this week!

Here’s another: How much of my life is organized around my fears? I had to put the book down when I read that one—and I’ve been on a conscious spiritual path for more than half my life!

As Ms. Myss takes us through what she dubs “the dark passions,” her questions become even more pointed. Consider this under Pride.

“What does it take to get back in your “good graces” once your pride has been offended or you have been humiliated?”

Or, under Anger.

“How often and in what ways have you harmed others with your anger?”

The thing is, Carolyn Myss is a mystic who has done her work, her own personal soul work. As I read her book, I became more and more convinced that had she not, she would not have been able to ask these, and other, painful questions.


From the dark passions we are led to the power of our graces. Ms. Myss writes, “Grace is not just an emergency substance, a kind of divine Rescue Remedy.” I laughed in delight at this because this is exactly how grace is so often perceived, by both believers and nonbelievers. “Grace highlights qualities in you, enhances your strengths, heightens your inner senses, and sometimes gives you a craving for silence so that you can listen deeply.” Yeah, that’s grace.

Then, Ms. Myss draws the perfect map to grace. “To know grace fully and directly, you must turn inward.” She’s right, no exceptions. How we run from this piece of advice! “You can’t ‘go after grace’; it pursues you. Grace emerges out of your own inner work and the healing of the dark passions. It comes through prayer and through discovering that you thrive more on truth than on fear. Grace comes to you as you learn to rely on it.” Yes, oh yes.

The more we live as if we live in grace, the more grace we are, do and have. Ms. Myss delineates seven graces, and her Cosmic Two-By-Four Questions continue solidly through them.

Dear One, the questions are more than worth the price of the book. Long live Caroline Myss—the Question Authority.


 

Raison d’être

Seeds XI, 46

Seed: Raison d’être

Professor Ravindra (from last week) also talked about an expression common to English despite its French origins. Raison d’être. Its literal translation is reason of being. The OED defines it as the rational ground for existence.

Ravindra says it means what’s inside.

So I’m asking: what’s your reason for being? Why are you here? What’s your purpose? Who sent you? Why?

I like Ravindra’s clue to the spiritual seeker. Your reason for being, he says, is to be found inside your own nature. There is no looking outside for the answers to these sorts of questions.

Instead, we must seek within. No matter how long it takes us to figure it out, eventually we all turn within.

In the Gospel of Thomas, Jesus of Nazareth is quoted as saying, “”If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”

Threatening, I know, or … promising. I pick promising.

Be joy,

Susan Corso

Dr. Susan Corso

Seeds are remarkable gifts. Sown in consciousness, they bring you to the most important part of your being—your Divine Spark.

Check out the Seeds Archive for past messages of inspiration.

    

When you have friends you would like added to the Seeds e-mail list, send their addresses to me at susan@susancorso.com.

For spiritual nourishment, please visit my website www.susancorso.com

and my blogs Seeds for Sanctuary, God’s Dictionary,

Ode Magazine, and The Huffington Post.

Idea Angels


A friend sent this to me—the idea is phenomenal!

CHARITY BENEFIT ASKS FOR IDEAS, NOT MONEY

 
 

In a week-long online event, Idea Aid asks for donations of best ideas to help

end world poverty and hunger.

NEW YORK – November, 2009  In a massive effort to collect ideas for ending global poverty and hunger,  Idea Aid, the world’s first brainstorming benefit, will get underway at www.ideaaid.com on Saturday, November 14, 2009.  

Mensa Process is the only organization with the rights to brainstorm with Mensa members to solve difficult problems for its corporate clients. Idea Aid is the first time Mensa Process will leverage its brain trust to help a not-for-profit organization.           

Working in conjunction with Heifer International, a U.S-based humanitarian organization dedicated to ending world hunger and poverty, people from around the world, from all walks of life, will brainstorm online and submit innovative and sustainable ideas for raising $1 billion annually to help eradicate global poverty and hunger. 

According to the World Bank, 1.2 billion people—20 percent of the world’s population—survive on less than $1 a day. More than 800 million people go to bed hungry every day and 300 million of them are children.  

“Poverty and hunger exist on every continent,” said David Wynett, Managing Director of Mensa Process. “In America, the problem exists in Appalachia, in our inner cities and even in the suburbs.  Idea Aid is one way that everyone can make a contribution by offering new ideas that will encourage and motivate people to give.” 

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Similar to Live Aid or Farm Aid, Idea Aid is an important event designed to make an impact in people’s lives. Rather than raising money for a charitable Cause as Live Aid and Farm Aid do, Idea Aid participants give their ideas instead.

Wynett said that members of American Mensa, British Mensa and Mensa International, along with academics, economists, teachers, students, business executives, entrepreneurs, doctors, and homemakers, and many others are participating in Idea Aid 2009.


“The goal is to have everyone generate ideas to help solve worldwide problems,” Wynett explained.  ”It only takes one great idea to change the world for the better.” Heifer International will recognize the submitters of the top 5 ideas, and will share the intellectual property created during Idea Aid with other organizations in the field.

Wynett points out that during difficult economic times, many people are not able to make cash donations to important causes.  He said Idea Aid provides everyone with the opportunity to make a contribution with their ideas.    

Readers interested in learning more about Idea Aid should sign up today at www.ideaaid.com.  For more information about Heifer International, they should visit www.heifer.org.  To learn about Mensa Process, visit www.mensaprocess.com

Any metaphysician can tell you that an idea ALWAYS precedes a change. Bravi, Mensa and Heifer!

The Future that Brought Her Here: A Memoir of a Call to Awaken by Deborah DeNicola

Deborah DeNicola approached the spiritual life seriously because of a broken heart. So many of us create crises in order to awaken; it’s definitely one way to do life, but, believe it or not, crises are not a requirement. Neither is exquisite poetry, but DeNicola thrives on both.

Her new book The Future that Brought Her Here: A Memoir of a Call to Awaken is one woman’s story of a life lived in the process of awakening. Sometimes she wakens joyously; at other times, kicking and screaming. Regardless, awakening is her mandate, and awaken, she does.

DeNicola realizes quickly that all things on this Earth are designed to awaken humans. All. No exceptions. She wakens through dream work, channeling, automatic writing, readings, relationship, travel. Anything and everything is an opportunity to waken if we’ll take it that way.

And Deborah DeNicola does.

For many years I have credited Mama Donna Henes with this quote: “Your mama never told you bedtime facts—she told you bedtime stories.” When I told her about it, she laughed, and said she couldn’t take responsibility for it!

DeNicola tells us story after story. Rich, full, interior. Seeking validation of her own mystical experiences, she validates those of her readers. Unusually, her experience with the intuitive and mystical is physical. She feels light touches and adjustments within her body as she grows. Guidance comes to her through dreams, workshops, healers, therapists, channelers and a host of miraculous occurrences. Is it believable? To me, it is. I have my own version of her story.

In truth, so does everyone, but does everyone validate it? Sadly, no. This is why it’s so good to have another book in the world telling one woman’s personal experiences. No one will have identical experiences, but we all have similar ones.

Interspersed through her written journey are divine poems. I mean divine in the holiest sense. Deborah DeNicola is an inspired poet. She uses her artistry to understand her world. Poetry of itself is naturally liminal, and this award-winning poetess (isn’t that a lovely, old fashioned word?) soars when she grasps her world through words.

One of her guides suggests that we strive and that we affirm that “I accept this in peace,” whatever the this is in that sentence. It is this surrendered self that DeNicola cultivates. Her journey is a shining example for all who know that surrender is the easiest way to live.

Her father died of a drug overdose in 1963 when the author was 15. My father died in 1963 as well; I was five. The resonance of the dates primed me for healing as I read her poem cycle about her father’s death. Consider these striking words:

Sweet yearning

for the beauty of touching with the heart

what the mind did not

in creating the sorrow

of the body.

Oh yes, the premature death of a parent. Premature? Is there ever a good time for a parent to die in the mind of a child? No, not really. Her poem cycle leapt off the page to heal me. For that I am grateful, a better daughter.

Thank you, Deborah DeNicola, for writing this book bent on empowering the feminine in a world that so achingly needs Her.

For you, who agree with her, and even for those who don’t, read this one woman’s everyday, spectacular journey, and be confirmed in your own.

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